


I worry quite often that I'm not enough of a soccer mom. Don't set up playdates. Don't have Tom going to seven different activities a week to build his little brain and pad his mini resume. But have been heartened by a lecture I went to with Margo from a leading child psychologist who re-emphasised the age old wisdom.. they have to learn HOW to be bored and then how to GET creative all by themselves... overscheduling children can actually shortcircuit their mental agility... and then (perversely) heartened by Tom in the last two weeks learning to ski, playing his first chess game, going climbing with Kalli, and bringing home his first soccer trophy! Go Lister!
Actually, he was VERY sweet about the trophy - ran towards me yelling, "Mum Mum, I won a trophy for being great at soccer! - not noticing that the trophy was awarded for, er, turning up. Bless his cotton sox etc.
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